While missing family gatherings, some prefer to break their Ramadan fast alone while focusing on spiritual growth and self-love

PETALING JAYA: While homes across Malaysia overflow with the chatter of iftar gatherings and the clatter of kitchen pots, some young professionals are setting just one plate this Ramadan – choosing solitude over tradition and discovering independence in the quiet.

For Razin Aleia Romzi, 25, fasting alone is nothing new. The Cyberjaya-based secretary has spent several Ramadans on her own, even during her student days.

“So it hasn’t been that different for the past few years. I do come home for a bite when I feel like it, but not for long.

“I prefer to spend it alone rather than with others.”

Living alone has also changed how she manages her meals.

Razin Aleia makes a conscious effort to avoid eating out, describing it as both costly and troublesome.

While she sometimes misses the communal aspect of breaking fast with family, she generally enjoys her solitude.

“I don’t really feel any sadness or loneliness, maybe because I have almost mastered the art of self-love and the beauty of being alone in general,” she shared.

“I’m never fully alone, thanks to my cats keeping me company during mealtimes.”

Spending Ramadan independently has not altered her spiritual perspective but she believes it offers valuable lessons.

“I think people should try experiencing Ramadan alone for a change.

“It helps you see the bigger picture, especially when it comes to combating wastage and the ‘fear of missing out’ (Fomo).”

For Wala’ Abdul Muiz Dzihni, 27, Ramadan solitude is familiar but this year feels different.

The Shah Alam-based government servant, originally from Kubang Kerian, Kelantan, has been away from home for almost two years.

“This year feels the most different.

“Everything feels more intentional, like I’m doing this for myself as an adult, knowing I need to be here one way or another,” she said.

Living alone has pushed her to prioritise her health, including managing low blood pressure through regular vitamins.

Unlike those who meticulously plan Ramadan meals, Wala’ admits she is more spontaneous, thanks to the convenience of nearby food stalls.

Yet she openly misses the warmth of breaking fast with family.

While she has previously joined community iftar events, Wala’ has learned that breaking fast alone does not trouble her as much as she once feared.

“So what if you can’t eat as luxuriously as others?

“You still have food on the table. With patience, God may have greater things in store for you.”

As Ramadan unfolds in quiet apartments and bustling city streets, these young women show that even in solitude, the holy month remains a time of reflection, resilience and gratitude.

 The Sun Malaysia